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In my Life Coaching Business I often
see clients who after a few minutes of talking tell me
what career they would love. They really are not
confused about what they want to do instead they are
afraid to go after their dream or they don't know how or
perhaps a combination of the two. It is wonderful to
know what your passion-filled career would be but
extremely frustrating to know that and never do a thing
about it! Carol is a prime example of this dilemma. She
is amazingly artistic and loves decorating houses. Her
own house sold in two days during a depressed market and
had several offers. Why? Because Carol had made her home
a showplace. Any outsider can see that Carol has the
talent, passion and gift for Interior Decorating.
Unfortunately, she has not followed that dream and has
jumped from one unsatisfying job to another. Part of the
reason Carol is stuck is the absence of a clear goal and
plan to achieve it. The
first step to turn a dream into a reality is to be very
clear about what you want. Take time to write out your
ideal job. Put as many details into your description as
possible. You need to give that powerful part of your
brain, your subconscious, detailed and brilliant
pictures to work with. When you describe your goal use
all your senses to make a clear picture of what you
want. For example writing down, "I want a rewarding
career." does not give the subconscious much to go on.
What is a rewarding career? What would that look like?
What would you be doing? What would others be saying
about you? Once your goal is clear it is much easier to
move forward with purpose and motivation.
The next step is to acknowledge
WHY you want to reach this goal. A goal without a strong
purpose will not keep you interested. Write down all the
reasons you can think of. What is in it for you? How
will you impact others? If you cannot come up with a
strong "why" then it is often a sign that this goal is
not yours at all but something that you think you
"should" do or someone else thinks you "should" do. A
powerful "why" helps you stay motivated even when you
encounter obstacles as you embark on your career change.
After you are clear about what you
want and why you want it then you can start creating a
Dream Line. The Dream Line should be for the next six
months to one year. If you make a plan for much longer
than that it is easy to procrastinate. Write down where
you want to be at the end of the year. What do you want
to accomplish that would feel really great? Do you want
to have your own business running and profitable? Do you
want to move to a new city and be working at your dream
job as _____________. Do you want a promotion into the
position you have always dreamed of? When you know the
end result then you can begin filling in the blanks.
What do you need to have done this month? What will you
accomplish next month. Of course this is a "living" plan
and you will change as you go but by writing down what
you think you should accomplish each month you will keep
momentum.
Jonathon Winters the comedian once
said, "If your ship doesn't come in, swim out to meet
it." After making a plan the key to unlock your dreams
is action. Consistent, daily action. Jack Canfield,
author of "The Success Principles" talks about taking 5
daily actions steps towards your goal. Don't worry if
you are not sure how to take some of the steps, do it
anyway. Yes, you will make some mistakes but that is how
you move forward. We all learned how to walk by trying
and falling and trying again. I'm not sure why we get
the idea that when we learn as adults we need to do it
without mistakes! It just doesn't work that way.
Because we will be making
mistakes, learning new things and feeling fear it is
important that we gather a support team. Who do you need
on your team? These should be "can do" people who will
encourage you as you change your career. They need to be
people who will let you cry on their shoulders and then
give you a gentle (or not so gentle!) shove towards your
goal. Remember that sometimes we need to tell people how
we would like to be supported. Don't assume they will
know. Tell them!
As you move forward towards your
goal keep focused on the desired end result. Imagine
what it will be like when you are working in your new
career. What will you feel like? What will you be doing?
Who will you be working with? Keep your vision bright.
Not only will it keep you motivated but you will
naturally attract the people, resources and
circumstances that will help you begin your
passion-filled career.
Celebrate as you work towards your
goal. Many of us celebrate after we start our new
business or land our dream job and that is great but it
is not enough. We need to celebrate each small step.
Research has shown that people who feel successful tend
to have more successes. The way to feel successful each
day is to acknowledge your completion of each small
step. These little treats along the way will keep you
moving forward and make the journey fun. Now off you go.
It is time to take action and turn your dream into a
reality!
Leanna Fredrich helps people
discover their passion and build a business or career
around it. She specializes in helping people get over
their fears and limiting beliefs quickly and easily so
they can create their dreams. Are you ready to enjoy a
career you love? Get the FREE report "The Top Ten
Secrets to Discover Your Passion-filled Work." For your
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