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Have you ever spent an entire day at
work doing something where you really felt awesome? All
day long you were busy doing things that made you feel
powerful and energized. That night you went to bed
physically tired yet thinking, "I would love to wake up
and do that all over again!" You have just experienced a
day using your strengths. How would you like everyday to
be like that? The key to finding a career or business
that you will be happy and wildly successful in is to be
clear on what your strengths are.
All of us have strengths that make
up who we are. Unfortunately, most of us do not know
what our strengths are. We tend to overlook them because
activities which use our strengths come so easily to us.
Often we think that "everyone can do this." We can list
off our weaknesses (at least in private) without a pause
but when asked about strengths we say things like, "I am
good with people or I am good at organization." What
does that mean? Are you good with people one-on-one or
are you best in groups? Do you like to organize
projects, file cabinets or people?
What is a strength? A strength is
an activity that gives you energy instead of draining
it. You may be physically tired after a day of using
your strengths but you will be thinking things like,
"When can I do that again?" Many times people confuse
their strengths with skills. A skill is something you
are good at but may not be an activity that energizes
you. In fact a skill can be a drain. I am quite skilled
at keeping large numbers of children from killing each
other at recess but it is an activity which drains me.
Of course a skill may be a strength as well. It all
depends on how you FEEL when you are doing it.
So let's not waste any more time.
Let's find out what your strengths are! One of the best
ways to do this is to categorize each activity you do
during the day. Tasks are either energy draining,
neutral, or energizing. Take out a piece of paper and
divide it into three sections. Put Energizing Activities
in one section, Neutral Activities in the next and
Draining Activities in the third section. Now, write
down your daily activities in the appropriate area.
After a day or two of this look at your list and check
for patterns. Perhaps you believe you are a "people
person." How do you like to interact with others? Do you
get more energy from groups? Do you like to teach
people? Listen to people? Lead people? Keep track of
your activities until you have clarity on the specifics
of your strengths.
OK, now you have a list of your
strengths but what do you do with them? The short answer
is find ways to use them! Observe your day at work and
find ways to maximize the time you are using your
strengths. If you love to teach then let your boss know
that you are available for that. Put it out there. You
never know what will happen! Maximize your strengths
outside of work as well. Often by doing this you will
open up doors to opportunities to enter a career which
will better use your strengths. When you are
interviewing for a job let the interviewer know where
your strengths lie. Ask questions to find out how much
of your job will allow you to operate within your
strengths.
Now for the question I hear most
often when working with clients on strengths. "What do I
do about my weaknesses?" Well, not much! You could work
hard to improve your weaknesses and end up for the most
part wasting your time. For example, I want people to
like me and because of this I am terrible at
confrontation. Over the years I have worked to improve
this weakness. I have taken assertiveness training, read
books on how to say what you need to say even though it
is hard. After all that work I went from being terrible
at confrontation to being bad at it. You see no matter
how much time and effort I put into working on improving
my weaknesses I will still be weak in those areas. In
contrast, when I work on my strengths I have
extraordinary results. Life is too short to spend much
time working on our weaknesses! Instead get creative.
Find people who have your weakness as a strength and
outsource it. Barter... find someone who needs your
strengths and you need theirs. If you must do tasks that
drain you save them for the end of the day and clump
them together so most of your time is spent on
activities which energize you.
Living life in a way that
maximizes your strengths is the key to having a
passion-filled work and life. It is the way you can make
the biggest impact during your time on this planet. In
Marcus Buckingham's book "Now Discover Your Strengths"
he lists three questions for you to ask yourself before
you take that next job or start a new business.
- Does "why the company exists"
strengthen you?
- Does "who you are going to be
working with" strengthen you?
- Does "what you are going to
be spending most of your time doing" strengthen you?
( The answer to this question is the most important
of the three questions.)
Find a way to maximize your
strengths and I guarantee you will have more energy,
excitement, passion and most of all you will be the
genius you were meant to be!
Leanna Fredrich helps people
discover their passion and build a business or career
around it. She specializes in helping people get over
their fears and limiting beliefs quickly and easily so
they can create their dreams. Are you ready to enjoy a
career you love? Get the FREE report "The Top Ten
Secrets to Discover Your Passion-filled Work." For your
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