People
in transition know that 60 to 80 percent of job seekers
get their next positions through networking.
Consequently and whenever possible, they focus their
daily activities on such networking. But despite
their—sometimes admittedly awkward—efforts, nothing
comes of it. The reason is that they don’t have an
understanding of the actual purpose of networking and
how to turn it into interviews.
The purpose of networking is to cultivate relationships
for advice, information, leads, and, hopefully,
referrals. While it’s important to know others for this
purpose, it’s equally important that those others know
you. Most people are willing to network, but they have
the right to expect you to (1) focus on specific
companies and (2) demonstrate to them that networking is
a give-and-take transaction, whereby they, too, may get
from you in turn some industry intelligence.
For those who don’t know how to go about approaching a
person for the purpose of networking, here’s a simple
script that can be used either over the phone or via
e-mail.
My name is Jane Jones. Our mutual
acquaintance Stan Smith suggested I give you a call
[send you an e-mail] because he feels you’re an expert
in the pharmaceutical industry. Stan suggested you might
be of assistance to me. I’m in transition and looking
for a role as a marketing director. I don’t expect you
to know of an opening in this area, but perhaps you can
share with me your thoughts about ways I can find out
who’s hiring.
The mechanics of a networking dialogue should have
the following components. An initial rapport building to
establish the relationship. An agenda for the
purpose—and for that consider how you, too, can add
value. Try finding out whom the other person knows or
what good contacts the person has. Another element is
likability. You must develop your relationship on trust,
integrity, and shows of enthusiasm, motivation, and
drive. Nobody enjoys a conversation with someone who’s
depressed—with the possible exception of a psychologist!
And last, get engaged in the exchange, and try to feel
comfortable asking for referrals. When you get them,
make sure you keep your host in the loop.
If you follow these guidelines, it’s very likely that
you’ll generate more interviews. In that event, make
sure you’re well prepared. You don’t want to drop the
ball once you’re so close to scoring.
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